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Why Don’t They Appreciate Me?

February 13, 2013 By Change Masters Academy Leave a Comment

happyWhy do some people get so much credit when they do less than you?  You work hard and get great results, and it is hardly noticed. We hear this often from talented leaders who have progressed quickly early in their career and then seem to stall out in their progress.

“My work should speak for itself,” is often the mantra.  “I don’t want to be a brown-noser or stuck-up,” or “I don’t do politics,” is the comment that usually follows close behind.  Our Asian clients will say they do not want to be the “shoeshine boy”.

Why? We hate the idea that we might come across as phony or superficial.  We have all seen the “empty suit” who gets recognition and promotion when others know they are not that good.

 

So how can you be authentic and still get the recognition you deserve?

If you invented a really great product and did not tell anyone about it or what it does for them, would you expect people to buy it? Of course not. What you do is much more apparent to you than to others. If you do not communicate how your product benefits others … they are not likely to buy it … if you do not let others know what you and your team are doing … they are not likely to buy you either.

I am not talking about the old time “Snake Oil salesman” who sold worthless product that would do nothing. That is closer to the empty suit.  You need to craft your honest marketing plan for you and your team if you want others to recognize and appreciate what you do.

It is your responsibility to promote yourself – you can’t outsource this responsibility!  Some people are fortunate to have a champion to do their marketing for them. You cannot plan on that continuing, nor should you.

You need to help your boss promote you. If your boss’s boss and your boss’s peers do not see how good you are, your boss takes a big risk to promote you or recommend you to others.  If you are promoted and do not meet expectations … it reflects poorly on the one who recommended you. That is a high risk. The higher you go in the organization … the harder it is to measure success and the higher the risk.

What if your champion is transferred, leaves, or retires? Your reputation is what you have left. Make it a good one that is well known.   Assume that people are too busy to automatically pick up on what you’re doing.   If you do so, your courage to tell your story will be doing yourself, your career and your paycheck a big favor. secure web hosting . If you have value to bring to the organization and nobody knows about it … you are also hurting the organization. They will promote someone else when it should have been you.

 

You don’t have to be slimy to build advocacy or market yourself at work

How can you show that you are on a different glide path?  If you do this right, you can segue more smoothly into your self-marketing so it doesn’t have that slimy factor we all hate.  Here’s how we encourage our clients at Change Masters, our global leadership communications company specializing in executive presence, to make their capabilities known in their organizations.  This template works around the world – in fact, here’s an example from a Western European leader now working in Asia.

 

First, make your progress known in the three big areas every company is interested in today, How are you making progress in these three areas:

–          Driving business results

–          Driving breakthrough innovations

–          Driving people development to the next level of performance

Just thinking of these things allows you to start to recalibrate your language and your actions to focus yourself in the right direction.

 

Second, if they don’t know what you’ve done it’s almost like you haven’t done it.  Get the word out.  You create a product or generate an idea, but stick it on the back of the bottom shelf and let it get dusty, no one will ever buy it. You have to socialize your ideas to get heard within your circles of influence. Don’t let your comfort level be your guide – let their ability to register and retain your message be your guide.

 

Third, when you socialize what you’ve done, concisely focus on some unique nuance of your approach or what you did that made it work because of your unique perspective on the situation.  Don’t assume they know!  When you do so, cut out the “blah blah blah” of providing excess background.  You just want to hook them with one brief, intriguing statement.  As one client of mine, a Dutch engineer, said, “Take them by the hand and give one line of background for context, not the history of the world!”   He had great results with this approach, saying, “You made a Dutch engineer half-Italian!”

 

Bottom line: Engage your senior leaders in topics that are meaningful to them and remember – if you did it and you said it, you’re not bragging!

 

For a tip sheet on how to craft your authentic message with a hook line to capture their attention, visit www.ChangeMastersAcademy.info/v00-0006_01

 

Tom Mungavan and Carol Keers

Your number one secret to career success

February 7, 2013 By Change Masters Academy Leave a Comment

number1The Center for Creative Leadership studies show 40% of all top executives will fail within the first 18 months of a new assignment. Ouch! The #1 Reason: Interpersonal and Communications Skills.

Before you think, “That is not my problem.” Think again! We have worked for over 25 years with top leaders in many of the premier companies in the world. Most leaders think they are better communicators than they are … that is why it is the top reason they fail.

We know that simple changes in interpersonal and communications can make the difference between the top performers and the “also ran”. We have seen in time and time again.

The CCL studies show the issues to be:

  • Insensitivity to others
  • Cold, aloof, arrogance
  • defensiveness
  • A lack of poise under pressure
  • Annoyingly ambitiousness

We work individually over 12 to 18 months with high talent leaders. The most common response from our clients is, “I wish I had done this ten years ago!” We do not have a time machine to turn back the clock. We do have experience in coaching that is reported to add seven to ten years of maturity for talented leaders.

Most people do not want to pay our fees for individual coaching. That is OK with us. We have all the business we can handle. What is not OK with us is not being able to help people around the world who have asked for our help after reading our book, “Seeing Yourself as Others Do – Authentic Executive Presence at Any Stage of Your Career“.  It is our mission to be able to help many more people in the world. Part of the proceeds will go toward scholarships for leaders in non-profit organizations.

This blog and other resource on the Change Masters Academy website will share the coaching experience like sitting across the table from highly experienced coaches. Pragmatic advice that has changed lives for the better for leaders around the world.

Understanding these things can increase your competitiveness in the workplace, reduce the amount of time it takes for you to get things done with your team and get tremendously improved rankings as a listener, presenter and communicator.

Our motto at Change Masters is, “We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behaviors”.  If you don’t know what your behaviors say to others, you are living in a world of blind spots that could derail your success.

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